You know what? I have an anxiety disorder so severe that I've been disabled an unable to work due to it in the past. Now, I' bet you're saying "Oh hell - she's gonna stick up for this woman"
Guess what?
NOT!These kinds of specific fears are treatable. Desensitization often works. Learning to associate the fear item with something nice can help (as long as the something nice is something you like A LOT more than you fear the fear item) And, you can also learn to live with it.
I've never quite been able to get over my claustrophobia or fear of heights. It's not even an emotional feeling, really. It's purely physiological - vision gets blurry and my thought process fuzzes up etc . . .
BUT - unless someone closed me in a Plexiglas capsule and hung me from a sky scraper - with no rescue in sight - I'm NOT going to scream and cry! (That is, until I get the person who did it to me back in some corner and am ready to go postal on him ;

)
These women are getting a lot of attention for their dramatics. It isn't helping!